Bottom line, y’all, if you are not in a relationship/marriage right now, it was completely your choice. It’s not for me to say/judge whether it was a bad or good choice (nor do I intend to), but the choice ultimately was YOURS. It always has been and always will be.
In all of your relationships, who was the common denominator? YOU.
Who do you have control over (hopefully)? YOU.
So, we can talk about how bad the opposite sex is ALL DAY and deflect blame or we can take personal responsibility for the ONLY person we CAN control.
You are where you are right now because of the decisions YOU have made.
OWN them. Own your baggage. Own your BS. Own your insecurities. Own whatever place you are in NOW. Then, let it go. It’s over. Move forward…
Some people are going to read this and take it negatively, like some sort of personal attack because “it’s not your fault” (victim). Others will see it positively and take is as further affirmation that they are co-creators in their lives (empowered). Take a hard look at yourself, notice what emotions you felt and realize that what you are feeling is every bit of a reflection of where you are now, and has nothing to do with what I actually said. Not me, these words or anyone have ANY POWER over you to make you feel any kind of way, good, bad or indifferent. You can’t get where you want to go, if you refuse to leave where you are. Once you are honest with yourself and recognize where you are, then you can move forward to the place you want to be. 🙂
Ok. I’m done.
With Love Always…