I don’t need to be teased.
Giving me just enough to appease.
Just good enough was never good enough for me. Save it.
Small quantities do not satiate,
Appetizer love leaves me hungry. Wanting more…
Little scraps will not calm the beast.
I want to feast.
I want it all.
Anything else is nothing. Nothing else will do.
I’m sure you have a friend — awesome, successful, beautiful, got it goin’– (maybe it’s you) that is dating that guy you perceive as a loser, when clearly, she could totally do better. Maybe you’ve already told her and she KNOWS the guy is bad news… So what’s keeping her there? Good news is, she’s not entirely bat shit crazy. Here are some reasons why she hasn’t pulled the plug on Mr. Sexo-DeadBeat.
…After aggressively damaging the female population’s perception of men for the better part of five years, men start wondering why girls are so jaded towards them and, ironically, desperate to marry them. Continue reading →
Whenever I tell people I date online, an apparent veil of incredulity washes over them as they invariably start to wonder “what’s wrong with her?” What’s a perfectly awesome, beautiful woman doing looking for love online?Oh, let me count the reasons!
Bottom line, y’all, if you are not in a relationship/marriage right now, it was completely your choice. It’s not for me to say/judge whether it was a bad or good choice (nor do I intend to), but the choice ultimately was YOURS. It always has been and always will be. Continue reading →
Many times, friends reach out to me for advice. I’m asked “What would you do in this situation?” or “What would you say to this person?” To that end, I’m starting a “Dear Dani” segment where I either address the situation or draft a letter addressing the situation. The advice seeker can then use this information however they see fit (letter, email, in person, etc).
I met this guy and we had an instant connection. The chemistry was off the charts. Because of this connection, we kinda hooked up on the first night, which it so not like me and he claimed he wasn’t after that. I kind of gave in Continue reading →
Ever notice how #guys have this internal alarm that turns on precisely at the moment when their ex has moved on… and then they SWOOP in to try to get them back. It’s not fair. BOTTOMLINE: You don’t close the deal, you don’t get the girl. #ThingsMenDo
For the Single Ladies who are in such a hurry to get married, here’s a quick piece of Biblical advice:
Ruth patiently waited for her mate Boaz. While waiting on YOUR Boaz, don’t settle for ANY of his relatives: Brokeaz, Poaz, Lyinaz, Cheatinaz, Dumbaz, Cheapaz, Lockedupaz, Goodfornothinaz, Lazyaz or Marriedaz & especially his third cousinBeatinyoaz.
Please, wait on your Boaz and make sure he respects Yoaz.